Welcome to I See You, Sister.
🤍 You're not alone 🤍
Let's move through the waves together.
For the widow who is craving to truly be seen by those who get it…
THIS IS THE SPACE FOR YOU.
Sink into connection with a community of sisters who know what this is really like.
Ellen
I don’t know where I would be today or how I would have survived without Mira's program. She showed me my path at a time when I was more lost & broken than I had ever been and I am forever grateful.
Amy
I cannot recommend Mira and her programs highly enough. The investment was 100% worth it for me and I didn't want our group to end! I am eagerly awaiting Mira's next offering.
Danielle
Feeling seen & heard in this experience is priceless. Mira is an incredible leader in this widow/grief space and I will continue to sign up for her programs because of the love she puts behind everything she does.
Hello my beautiful sister
I see you in this pain and I know what this feels like. It’s okay that it hurts. There is nothing wrong with you. There is nothing that needs fixing.
There’s no expiry date when your grief is no longer valid.
I get it. This is agonizing. There have been so many moments when I have wanted my grief to disappear.
But I truly believe that integration of our loss happens when we are honest about our experience. When we see ourselves and our grief clearly, without shame or the pressure to be better.
And when we do this in community...
The power of connection between widows is transformative.
What we really need are spaces to be, exactly as we are.
To tell our stories. To be held.
And to be told, "Me too”, “You’re not alone", & “I won’t turn away”.
Rebuilding will happen.
But not in one magical moment when we are entirely healed.
It happens within & in-between the devastation. It’s all one big messy, murky, wild experience of painful growth & change. And if we’re honest about our experience, that’s when we rebuild our lives authentically.
We all have an internal wisdom.
We are each our own grief expert.
We don’t need pressure & we don’t need to be fixed.
We need connection.
We need to be heard.
We need to be seen.
Exactly as we are.
Love, Mira
Partner loss can make you feel both exquisitely, insignificantly small & unbearably large all at once.
It can show you the darkest parts of yourself at the same time as uncovering the bits you can’t believe how much you love.
It’s about losing everything in a moment.
How the floor opens up in front of you & how it doesn’t entirely close back up again. And how you learn to live with that opening, just beyond your fingertips.
Rebuilding happens within our grief. Life happens alongside loss. There is nothing to overcome.
Grief is being here. And being human. Grief is love.
I created the I See You, Sister Membership for widows because I wanted to build an ongoing container where our grief can be examined in a gentle & non-judgmental environment. A grief-literate community where we can each reconnect to our own rhythm in this after-life. Together.
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Hi love, I’m Mira.
WIDOW, MOTHER, WRITER, & GRIEF COACH TO OTHER WOMEN LIKE ME, WHO HAVE LOST THEIR PERSON.
In 2019, my love, Brian, died after a horrific seven-week cancer journey. I was left alone with our then almost three-year-old daughter, a broken sense of self, and a heart that was both expanded & utterly destroyed.
Nothing made sense in my life anymore.
And yes, people around me saw that I’d lost him but what they didn’t understand, was that I had also lost me too.
I remember lying on the floor sobbing & just wishing for even one widow friend. Just one person, who could understand the depths of this pain & how deeply everything had changed.
In the moment, it felt like I was the only person who had ever experienced this type of a loss.
Building the I See You, Sister Community came out of that moment, lying on the floor and feeling completely & entirely empty.
All I wanted at the time, was a space like this.
A space where my grief could be held, honoured, seen, and loved - with other women who got it.
Join the widows community you've been waiting for.
YES PLEASEClient Love...
Hear it in their words.
Anna
Joining Mira's program gave me the space to be seen and heard. It truly marked a turning point for me, on my grief journey. I am part of a community now. I belong.
I found myself looking forward to our live sessions, where Mira held space & we listened & contributed. We understood & supported one another under Mira’s facilitation. Mira facilitates in a gentle way, bearing witness to our lives. She is unselfish with her moderation. The topics were relevant, real, & thought provoking. Our feelings were validated and explored. I felt seen & no longer isolated. If you are widowed, I would highly recommend joining a program with Mira. This has made a positive impact on how I carry my grief & my love for my husband moving forward.
Angela
Because I joined Mira’s program, I have a support network of widows & feel empowered that I'm not alone. This was definitely worth the financial investment. I loved it.
I signed up for Mira’s program because of her IG content. I was also desiring a widow group where we talked about trauma & somatic practices. Seeing the way other widows grieve allowed me to be more gentle with myself & rest when I needed it. I loved learning about somatics & getting to know the other beautiful widows in the program. Mira, thank you so much for the work you do & the content you create. When I see your body of work, I feel a sense of anchoring that you have created for yourself, which has in turn allowed me to do the same for myself.
Jacque
I honestly feel like my healing/ integration journey has been "supersonic", on speed dial, and in "ultra-mode" because of Mira’s group. It will literally stick with me for the rest of my life.
If you are looking for a community that understands the widowhood experience, whether it’s a recent loss or a longer loss, this space is for you. I have felt so blessed by Mira and am so grateful for her. Not just what she offers in her work with widows, but how she is as a person. I’m grateful for her heart. It’s so loving and grounded and sparkling - and I feel blessed to have her in my circle. I just adore Mira. I cannot wait to join more New Moon Mira programs.
Sarah
I kept looking to therapists & other professionals to help me, but really, I needed other women riding the same waves. Mira's program has been the support I desperately needed.
Mira's programming was so informative & served as a platform for my favorite part - listening to my sister's stories. It's hard being a younger widow in a world of couples. Our stuff is just different & everyone in our group "got it". I looked forward to our sessions & truly care about Mira & the other women. Mira, to say I am grateful for your group is an understatement. I am filled with awe & gratitude for the opportunity to join this experience.
Inside the ISYS Community...
I will guide you through a journey, using a curriculum I have created out of the depths of my own loss. This community was designed to help you explore, honour, and move through your grief - all within a circle of other women who are in it too.
Receive live group coaching from me, a vault of incredible supporting resources that I’ve been building for years, & the widow community you've been yearning for.
Within the membership, we’ll explore a broad range of topics that I have found to be transformative for both myself & the widows who I work & connect with…
From the importance of being seen in and honouring the depths & pain of this loss, in a supportive & loving community -
i.e. Expressing & embodying the big emotions, uncovering & airing out the messiness of widowhood, recognizing & identifying secondary losses, naming societal grief-illiteracy & widely held grief myths, exploring grief around our children (or grief around not having children), and more…
To the profound inner work & identity shifts that this loss takes you on -
i.e. Defining boundaries within your grief, learning how to practice self-love, reconnecting to your intuition & confidence, exploring the grief & trauma held in our bodies and more…
To the nuanced ways we can learn to keep living, while building & maintaining our connection to our partner always -
i.e. the transformational role of spirituality & continuing bonds, dating & sexuality, reimagining your future together with your grief, embodying the energy of metamorphosis & building greater attunement with yourself, moving forward with your loss & your partner alongside you, and so much more…
I designed the I See You, Sister membership to give you the guidance, sisterhood, & tools to wrap your mind, heart, & soul around the profound depth of this loss - so you can lead yourself through it.
I know that at the end of the day, you’re the only one who fully understands your loss - all the unique crevices - and the intimate spaces you & your partner inhabited together, just the two of you.
But you’re not the only one who feels this way. And you’re not alone.
You are the expert in your own loss.
But we can walk through this experience together.
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Meg
Mira's program has been invaluable for me. It's changed my life. Mira is incredible at what she does. She has a gift, a significant gift. She is a treasure to her fellow widows.
I'm so grateful for Mira. I tell my friends about her program all the time, about how happy I am to have found other people who I can talk to and share with, listen to and feel for.
Charlene
Mira's program has been life changing. Joining was a profound and amazing experience. Mira, I am so, so grateful that you do what you do so exceptionally well. Thank you.
This was such a gentle, supportive, & kind-hearted space - where everybody was real & raw. You don't encounter that in society very often & it happened so quickly within our group.
Sabrina
Mira's program was something extremely special in my life and I wish it didn’t have to end. I have valued this group so much.
The fact that everybody was able to be so open and vulnerable was such a blessing to me. None of us wanted to be a part of this club, but here we are, supporting each other so well.
Anonymous
This program gave me a renewed sense of strength & purpose. Now I know that I can do this.
I joined Mira's program because I felt like I was stuck. I didn't know what the future held. So, thank you so much Mira & all the other beautiful women. I needed something that would tell me that life would continue & that I could do this.
HERE’S WHAT YOU'LL GET INSIDE
The I See You, Sister Community
Because you were never meant to do this alone.
Monthly Theme & Featured Workshop
Each month inside the community, we will feature a different theme related to widowhood & an accompanying workshop, following a transformative journey through our grief together. These will all live inside the community & you can access them or revisit them any time you wish.
Grief Coaching & Mentorship with Mira
Live mentorship calls with Mira where Mira teaches, coaches members live, and guides breakout rooms. Go deep with me & our community - and explore whatever is coming up for you in your grief right now. These will always be recorded if you can't make it live.
The Widow Community of Your Dreams
We're building a robust, beautiful, and completely private platform off of social media where our I See You, Sister community can connect and share our widow wins, waves, & wisdom. This is probably what I'm most excited about! I cannot wait to see you inside!
Ongoing Coaching Support from Our Beautiful Team
Ask questions any time and receive ongoing support & coaching from Mira & our team - as well as optional Sharing Circle support calls with our incredible support coaches, Katherine & Oshima.
Mira's Entire Somatic Video Library
Yup, you heard that right! When you join the community, you'll get immediate access to Mira's Somatic Video Library, with over 11 hours of pre-recorded somatic content, created specifically for grievers.
Guest Expert Speaker Sessions
Because there are so many others in this grief space with wisdom I want you all to receive - we'll supplement the membership by inviting guest experts in to lead bonus workshops every few months.
PLUS...
FREE ACCESS TO RECLAIM, MY SOMATIC GRIEF COURSE
I can barely believe I'm writing this, but my ENTIRE somatic grief course RECLAIM will live inside the ISYS community.
How it works...
Every month or so inside the membership, we will release one of the lessons from RECLAIM. When you join the membership, you'll get immediate access to my entire pre-recorded somatic video library, but the actual educational content from RECLAIM (lessons about how widowhood impacts your nervous system & how this impacts your life - as well as longer & more in-depth somatic sessions) will be dripped out over the course of the first year. Learn about & regulate your nervous system alongside the ISYS membership curriculum. Community & embodied work truly walk hand-in-hand inside this membership.
Normally this program on it's own is $1297!
Meg
The first time I did somatic work with Mira, something completely shifted in my body and my psyche. I felt a sense of hope. I hadn’t experienced this feeling since before my husband died. Tending to my body and what it needed through those movements somehow moved the grief itself and created a space where I felt like there was finally room to feel some lightness. I could imagine a way forward for the very first time!
Kourtney
The RECLAIM program is amazing and Mira is so good at sharing and teaching somatic practices. She has truly put her heart into it and provides so much - with the videos, cheat sheets, and trackers. I know that the somatic tools Mira has given me will be helpful for my entire life. I continue to incorporate them into my everyday living, which in turn, continues to help me calm my nervous system.
Jenny
In the RECLAIM program, I learned so much from Mira about how grief and trauma live in our bodies, not just in our thoughts and feelings. I then began to explore and use the somatic practices Mira taught us on my own. I was surviving what felt un-survivable. I trust Mira implicitly.
Cindy
Mira has developed not only a series of workshops, which cover somatic healing practices (breathwork, yoga, meditation, Qi Gong), but also excellent comprehensive accompanying materials, worksheets & resources - that continue to serve me. RECLAIM helped me process my often crippling grief, and learn how to communicate my grief & trauma journey to my friends & family. If you are struggling with the process of loss, I highly recommend RECLAIM & working with Mira.
Katherine
I’m beyond grateful to Mira for facilitating this safe space inside of RECLAIM. Throughout the program we were supported and held without judgment. We were introduced to subtle techniques to soothe our nervous systems. I learned how to feel again - to feel and not collapse. Since the RECLAIM program, I'm starting to ground myself, to refocus. My sleep has improved & I'm more aware of my boundaries. I categorically know that what I have learned will stay with me & strengthen me.
And then, there are all the BONUSES!
MEMBERSHIP PLATFORM
Access to a beautiful, private online membership platform where all supporting materials, resources, worksheets, and recordings from live calls & workshops will be conveniently found.
ISYS SPOTIFY PLAYLIST
A curated spotify playlist of Mira’s favourite & most influential grief music - this is music that has helped me connect to & move through my grief. I love adding to it as I discover new songs.
HANDOUTS & WORKSHEETS
Go deeper with these totally optional handouts, worksheets, and journal prompts. For those who love to use writing to help them move through their grief.
IN-PERSON EVENT DISCOUNTS
I plan on running more in-person events & retreats for widows in the future and ISYS members will always get first shot at booking a spot plus a discount!
PLUS…
AN EARLY BIRD BONUS IF YOU REGISTER BEFORE WEDNESDAY NOVEMBER 20TH AT 11:59 PM:
You’ll get a special invitation to a December pre-holiday live coaching call with Mira. Connect with other widows and workshop specific ways to set boundaries, honour your own needs, and feel less alone during what can be a particularly challenging time of year. And yes, a recording will be available for anyone who can't make it live.
More Client Love...
Ellen
I don’t know where I would be today or how I would have survived without Mira & her program. She showed me my path at a time when I was more lost & broken than I had ever been and I am forever grateful.
When I found Mira, what she shared on Instagram helped me more than anything else. I couldn’t miss the opportunity to be in a circle with her & benefit directly from her support. For me, the most important thing about the program was the opportunity to connect with Mira - talking to her & listening. Her advice on widowhood & solo parenting has made me feel so seen, less lonely, & more prepared for the years to come. I could listen to Mira talk for hours & everything she says rings so true.
Amy
I cannot recommend Mira & her programs highly enough. The investment was 100% worth it & I didn't want our group to end! I am eagerly awaiting her next offering.
I was able to open up in Mira's program, in a way that I hadn't been able to before. Mira curated such a beautiful group of likeminded widows. We supported each other through the hard times & celebrated when one of us had a win. I still feel the pain when it comes, but I now have better coping mechanisms, especially through the somatic practices Mira taught us. You get such a wonderful sense of who Mira is by reading her Instagram posts. Her tone, methods, groups & other experiences are so aligned with the way I am processing my grief.
Anonymous
Mira’s program was such a worthy investment and has been the most impactful component of my healing journey. I am so glad I didn't let my hesitations or fears stop me from committing & joining this program.
I joined Mira’s group because I was yearning for a community of women who understood what I was going through. I have a wonderful therapist but I felt I needed more. Mira's group gave me connection. Mira is such a special soul. She creates a sacred space where women at their most fragile & vulnerable feel welcomed, accepted, & validated. Alongside Mira and the lovely women in the group, I was cared for & supported. I was able to provide support to them too, an important part of my process that I didn't even know I needed. I highly recommend Mira's programs. Everything she creates is filled with compassion, sincerity, hope, & grace.
Frumet
I am so happy that I gave myself the gift of this program. I can’t thank you enough, Mira. I think you’re a genius. To be able to put all of this together in the way that you have, at such a young age, is quite remarkable!
Mira's group turned out to be one of the best investments I made towards helping me live as a widow. I highly recommend this program or any others Mira creates. She is a wise & compassionate young widow who has the great capacity to bring widows together for healing & growth. Mira was organized & created a process that made sense, but also held the space for spontaneous interactions. The community platform became a real portal for continued sharing & support. Through her group, I discovered that no matter your age or how long you have been a widow, widows speak a special language that only other widows understand.
INVESTMENT
Inside the Community You'll Get...
✔︎ Epic workshops based around our monthly theme
✔︎ Live coaching calls with Mira where you can lean in and receive deeper support
✔︎ An incredible & robust community platform off of social media, just for widows
✔︎ Immediate access to Mira's Somatic Video Library
✔︎ The entire RECLAIM somatic grief course, with lessons released every month or so
✔︎ Ongoing support and bonus calls with Mira & our beautiful team of support coaches
✔︎ Guest expert sessions, led by leaders in the field
✔︎ Plus all the bonuses: The ISYS playlist, handouts & worksheets, discounts to in-person events and more...
EXCLUSIVE BONUS
IF YOU JOIN BEFORE WEDNESDAY NOVEMBER 20TH AT 11:59 PM:
A special invitation to a December bonus coaching call with Mira where we prep for the holidays together
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Only $37 per month or $397 for the year!
All prices in USD
As a founding member of the ISYS Community, you will be locked in at this low price for as long as you stay inside the community, even as the price goes up.
Our membership officially kicks off in January 2025!
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Danielle
Feeling seen & heard in this experience is priceless. Mira is an incredible leader in this widow/grief space and I will continue to sign up for her programs because of the love she puts behind everything she does.
When I signed up for Mira’s program, I was seeking a community of people who got it. Even with the support I have in my personal life, widowhood can feel extremely isolating and lonely. This program provided me with a space to be vulnerable with others who (unfortunately) understand what I’m going through, because they are going through it too.
Vicky
It’s been a gift to have a community where I feel like I can share anything & where others understand. I definitely recommend this program & I'm so glad & grateful I invested in it.
I was drawn to Mira & her offering of a widow's community based on her instagram writing & because she incorporates somatic work in her groups and discusses ways to tend to our bodies in grief (as well as minds & spirits). I found much healing/ integration in Mira’s program. She created & held space for us to express ourselves, bear witness to one another, and experience validation & support.
Marina
Even though I still have hard days, it no longer feels as if I'm catching my breath every moment. Through the perspectives & insights I've gained in this program, I feel a sense of peace.
I knew in my heart that Mira's beautiful and carefully planned program would be a life raft. Together with my fellow widow sisters, I shared and listened, cried and laughed, yelled and leaned into silence, journaled and expressed my grief. I also reflected and related. The only thing that there wasn't enough of was time. When I logged out from our sessions, I wished there was more time - more time to share and more time to listen, learn and discuss. It's amazing and gripping how something so excruciatingly painful and sad can create bonds and friendships across countries and continents.
Sophie
Mira's group helped me feel understood. It was immensely powerful for appeasing the feeling of isolation in widowhood.
Mira guided us through her program with compassion & kindness. It is obvious that she has training and experience as an Occupational Therapist and the fact that she is a widow herself makes a huge difference, as she understands what we’re going through. I found Mira’s program to be very comprehensive, with a lot of educative & supportive content. Every widow is important & everyone’s need to express (or not) is respected. Mira cared about including our person in our sessions & she gave us tools for regulating our nervous system. I left with more knowledge about widowhood & strategies for self-care. I’ll be forever thankful for Mira’s precious work.
Liz
It was so comforting to be in a group of women walking a similar path. I loved the course. Mira is an amazing human.
I signed up for Mira’s program because I wanted to be part of a community with others who understood what I was going through. I already followed Mira on instagram & loved everything about her. I wanted to hear & learn more. Through attending Mira’s group I learned that I am not alone in my grief. It reminded me that there is no timeline, which has given me confidence in myself, especially when I’m faced with people who think I should be “over my husband’s death” by now. It made me more patient with my grief.
Now I'd love to introduce you to these two beautiful women, who are both widows themselves & get it. They'll be inside the community with us, offering their wisdom & guidance.
The ISYS Community Support Coaches
Katherine Brito
Katherine is a grief coach and self-love advocate, supporting women through the heart-wrenching journey of loss. She offers compassionate grief support for women recreating a life that honours their enduring love and connection to their person.
Katherine’s husband Tony loved playing the piano & cooking… in that specific order. 🤣
Oshima Rangar
Oshima is a a certified coach, widow, and mother who holds compassionate space for other grievers, supporting her sisters in navigating their own unique journeys & uncovering their inner wisdom following immense loss.
Oshima’s husband Huns founded festivals & produced radio shows! Huns had a passion for music, arts and culture.
Jen
Mira’s group made me feel seen, heard, loved, & most importantly, understood - without having to educate about grief & loss first.
This group brought me some coveted peace, and every woman here reinforced that there is no “one way” to do this – to grieve the loss of the center of our worlds – but rather, many ways to approach the healing. Mira’s program taught me how to sit in the grief, and how to embrace and integrate it vs. compartmentalizing it on Sunday mornings. I have more optimism and hope for the future, and I also know that I have a safety net to catch me and hold me, should I need it moving forward.
Carla
Since being in Mira’s group I feel like I’m less of an alien, out there on my own. Having support from other women who have also experienced what I’ve experienced, has been so special.
I found it so helpful having the other women in the group mirror things back to me that I previously felt like I was alone in. It’s been validating to have a space where I can talk about all the secondary losses and where we can process together. Having other people who can say, “No, you’re not crazy”, “I’ve experienced something like this too”, and ‘You’re not alone”... that has been really powerful. Thank you.
Jill
I would happily & easily join one of Mira's groups again or send someone else into her care.
I am very grateful to Mira for the opportunity to be a part of one of her groups. I truly appreciated her gentle & welcoming approach. It often takes an extra bit of courage to join a group without knowing anyone, while also knowing that there is emotional work to be done. I felt supported and validated as I went through the sessions with her.
Jordan
I’m so thankful I found Mira's group & for the Universe’s magic to have brought us all together.
I initially didn’t trust that I'd be able to find a group of people, much less fellow widows, who understood this experience but I’m so grateful I found Mira's program. It was so special, hearing everyone’s stories & feeling the immediate connection that we all had. I feel more hope now than I expected to. And I know that I’m not as alone as I sometimes think I am.
Breanne
Grief is lonely and now, I don't feel as alone. I strongly recommend this group to others.
Mira's sessions and materials were so well organized. I liked that the programming covered a variety of different topics & incorporated somatic work. I felt that I had the space to participate and was listened to – but I never felt pressured to contribute if I preferred to be quieter sometimes. From Mira’s group I got a sense of community. The women in the group were so kind, supportive, & uplifting. Everyone’s story is so different but the impact of the trauma we have all experienced feels the same. It was comforting to share this experience with other widows.
Cindy
Mira's widows group has helped me so much. The insights, the love, & the grieving together…it's been beautiful. It's been the best experience at the worst time.
Mira, thank you for leading us through this journey. I know that we say grief doesn't really have a destination & it's not linear, but I honestly believe that you have led us through a fog & moved us along our paths to a different place than we were when we first started this program. I can't thank you enough for how I feel now versus how I felt when I first joined this program. I have felt a sort of softness & that has been such a gift and so valuable. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.
Jenny
All I can says is, "Wow". Mira's widows program completely exceeded my expectations, in terms of how powerful it was. Having others who understand has changed so much for me.
As a gifted and experienced group facilitator, Mira created this incredible container that immediately felt safe; a space characterized by honesty, genuine understanding, and guidance that steadied me when I felt so untethered in the world. Mira's program has been a space that’s really allowed me to be open about my experience. It has made me feel sane and grounded. I’m so grateful I joined. I learned so much from Mira.
Kourtney
I trust Mira so much & couldn’t imagine taking this group with anyone else. I would recommend Mira to any widow. Her knowledge, kindness & support has helped me tremendously.
Being part of a group of women who have also experienced partner loss, has validated my experience & made me feel supported. Mira is a wonderful kind, gentle person who brings so much knowledge & experience in grief. I felt very safe with her, allowing me to open up and be honest & vulnerable. Mira's widows program was such a comfort, just knowing I could login, talk, listen, and be with others who understand my experience.
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Then the I See You, Sister Community is the space for you.
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